Does my wife need more counseling ?

it was my wife idea to separate from from marriage we gave been married 4years and living together 10years with 2 children. we don't get along and she said that she doesn't love me anymore at first it hurt me to hear my wife say that but now I got over that. we still live together I stay away from her so we wouldn't have arguments. I'm ready to move on now I inform her that I was still going to be there on whatever she needed for as long as she needed it even if she had another man in her life. I said to her that she was the love of my life and she can count on me. she said that we are moving to fast and wants more counseling. I don't know what to do anymore I think she is only playing around or is she only going this because she is angry