Bridesmaid shoes kill my feet. Should i tell her or just deal with the pain?

That much pain is ridiculous. Find some similar looking shoes that are more comfortable and present the bride with a few alternatives. You control your feet and if they hurt this much you should not wear them. Slight discomfort for the ceremony is one thing, if the bride is okay with you changing shoes right after. But actual intense pain? Not worth it. As a bride myself I would be so sad to have my bridesmaids in pain just to look a certain way. This is why my bridesmaids are choosing their own dress and shoes, in a color I pick. Not all bodies, or feet are created alike. Why do brides do this??